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What is your answer if someone asked you, what is your dream wedding?
When I was in high school, I always had a dream of what my wedding would be. I imagined that I will only have a simple warm wedding ceremony with only family as the guest. I really did not want to arrange any reception for my wedding. But I guess it is not so easy since I live in Indonesia where tradition and relatives are so important. So I ignore my dream wedding. It is fine if I held a reception, but still, it is only for relatives and close friends. So, since I have a new plan, I try to find some inspirations from internet what the reception would be. When I did browse on the internet to get reference to marriage things, I saw the wedding receptions which are so dazzling with the elegant bride’s gown, the romantic decoration, venue with great beach scene, large amount of invitations, the finest souvenirs and more.
I just realize that wedding things could be so fascinating. No wonder that every bride to be has a big excitement to prepare her reception. Suddenly I get my self from no reception to sweet romantic reception wanna be for a while. It quite seduces me to desire have a wedding like those. But inside, I still really want my simple dream wedding be reality.
Maybe if I married someday, I may not have it all. It is not only because I can not afford it, I do not also really want it. I think it is not so me. But no matter what reception I will have, I never forget that the most important thing is the wedding ceremony itself. I believe I can still see the smile of my groom, the laugh of my family and feel the warm of love no matter what wedding reception I will have. And one other thing which is essential too is the life after wedding reception, it is what people almost forget for a while.
So the answer is, I dream of a sweet simple warm wedding and a happy never ending marriage life.
PS: Inspired by my cousin’s post, Dream Wedding.